“If you were my boyfriend…”

10 Thursday May 2012

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awkard situations, dating, drama, love, prom, relationships, School, troubles, what to do?

As you may have read from my “about me” page, I am a high school student trying to navigate my way through life. This new post is dedicated to my recent troubles regarding guys. So I don’t know if its just me, but guys that seem more like a brother to me than boyfriend material keep asking me out. These guys have been close friends and then out of the blue…”do you want to be my girlfriend?” I hate having to go through the same speech time and time again, turning these guys down. Now, its only been two people so far but it makes me feel so bad “saying no” that it feels like a ton. I feel bad but I was just not attracted to them so why should I have to feel obligated to them. These two guys and I, luckily, have remained good friends.

Recently, I was asked to prom and went with this guy who I knew pretty well. So before prom we went on a couple of dates just to get to know each other better before the “big night”. All was going well. The mistake I made was that I thought we were just going as friends, but it turns out that he likes me more than that. The reason why I know that is because its been month after prom and he keeps asking me out. (A little background, I really didn’t have that much fun at prom since I basically spent the whole night with his friends) To my defense, I did not lead him on AT ALL. Does he not get the hint that I would just like to be friends?

: http://irfanurs.blogspot.com/2011/01/totally-confused.html

So now I’m stuck with the same problem once again. Luckily, I have a busy schedule and don’t have that much free time to hang out, but I can’t keep telling him I’m busy. What to do….what to do. Should I give him another chance and see how it works out, or should I just end this never ending parade of “do you wanna hang out this weekend ?” and be upfront ?